How to Connect to Your Higher Self

If you’re like me and you’ve probably heard about your Higher Self.

Its that part of You that guides you to connecting to your wants and desires.

But what is it really?

And how do you connect with it?

And why even bother?

The Higher Self

The Higher Self is really just that.

Its You but on a higher plane.

Pretty simple.

Think of it like an avatar in a video game.

The Higher Self is the gamer.

The avatar is you, the body on this 3d plane.

It also helps to think of the BIG YOU as your Higher Self, as this is indeed the immortal part of you that interacts on this earthly plane.

I’ve also come to think of the Higher Self as who I really am, the real me, as opposed to the ego mind, but we can save that for another article.

How to Connect

The Higher Self is easy to connect to.

All you have to do is feel good.

As the Higher Self primarily guides us based on feeling.

So if you feel good, as in GOOD, then you are in line with your Highest Desires, and acting from your Higher Self.

If you feel bad, then you are acting from a place of your lower self.

The higher the feeling, the higher the frequency.

The lower the feeling, the lower the frequency.

That is often why we feel ‘uplifted’ when we feel good things. These experiences are bringing our awareness up into a higher plane of feeling.

So essentially all you have to do to connect to your Higher Self is to gauge how you are feeling.

Are you feeling good?

Then good!

Keep going in that direction.

You are in line with your highest desires.

In case you get lost, a little trick you can use is to ask your Higher Self to clarify your desires, so you can be crystal clear about how you are feeling right now.

Just say, “Higher Self, please clarify my desires so they are crystal clear.”

And so it is.

This way if you are ever unsure about what you want, you can get that clarity in your life.

Why Even Bother?

This may seem like a silly question, for why would anyone want to NOT get what they want, right?

Well, you can always choose not to connect to the best part of you.

The most liberating, most edifying, the most grand part of you.

And you are free to not want the things you really want.

Or to have the things you really want.

You are free to also not have love, light, happiness, and the flow of joy in your life.

You are free to choose lack.

While it may seem unlikely, it is a perfectly valid choice to not be happy.

People do it all the time.

I will mention though, that when we choose from our ego mind, and we get so-so results.

Personally, I haven’t seen any choice that I’ve made from my ego end up being uplifting! But you are free to try!

What I am suggesting to you is this

You can always choose to feel bad, but if you want to feel good, connecting to the Higher Self is an easy way to do it!

By connecting to your Higher Self, you can pave the way to an easier life.

A life of flow.

Because you will be connecting to the part of you that is looking out for the best for you.

Let me know what you think about this article.

2 Responses to “How to Connect to Your Higher Self”


  1. 1 Liara Covert

    I like how you describe connecting with your Higher self. The more we make choices that enable us to experience joy, the better we are getting to know our authentic self.

  2. 2 Ben

    @ Liara, I agree :)

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